I want an older sister

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i want an older sister

Older Sister. Not Necessarily Related.: A Memoir by Jenny Heijun Wills

A beautiful and haunting memoir of kinship and culture rediscovered.

Jenny Heijun Wills was born in Korea and adopted as an infant into a white family in small-town Canada. In her late twenties, she reconnected with her first family and returned to Seoul where she spent four months getting to know other adoptees, as well as her Korean mother, father, siblings, and extended family. At the guesthouse for transnational adoptees where she lived, alliances were troubled by violence and fraught with the trauma of separation and of cultural illiteracy. Unsurprisingly, heartbreakingly, Wills found that her nascent relationships with her family were similarly fraught.

Ten years later, Wills sustains close ties with her Korean family. Her Korean parents and her younger sister attended her wedding in Montreal, and that same sister now lives in Canada. Remarkably, meeting Jenny caused her birth parents to reunite after having been estranged since her adoption. Little by little, Jenny Heijun Wills is learning and relearning her stories and those of her biological kin, piecing together a fragmented life into something resembling a whole.

Delving into gender, class, racial, and ethnic complexities, as well as into the complex relationships between Korean women--sisters, mothers and daughters, grandmothers and grandchildren, aunts and nieces--Older Sister. Not Necessarily Related. describes in visceral, lyrical prose the painful ripple effects that follow a childs removal from a family, and the rewards that can flow from both struggle and forgiveness.
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As much as your sister might drive you crazy sometimes, I'm a strong believer that those of us who have big sister are pretty darn lucky. Over the past few years, several news sources have released articles which really confirmed this theory of mine. Frankly, I wasn't surprised by this because my older sister is my best friend. I know this is not the case for everyone, but nonetheless, there are dozens of reasons why it's really, truly wonderful to have an older sister, especially as a young adult. You can "borrow" her clothes.

Growing up, I always wanted a big sister. I saw a lot of friends being able to talk to their older siblings for advice, share their clothes, do their hair, and just be two peas in a pod. Their big sister is someone they would look up to and wanted to be just like one day.
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Being a big sister is fun, but it is also a great responsibility. You might even find that they mimic your behavior. Be a good big sister to them by building a strong bond, being a positive role model, and being kind to them. If you want to be a good big sister, make sure to always support your younger siblings at important events, like an upcoming test or job interview. For example, you could give them a gift or card to show your pride in them, or simply say something encouraging like, "Good luck on your test today!

5 thoughts on “Older Sister. Not Necessarily Related.: A Memoir by Jenny Heijun Wills

  1. It's very normal. As the eldest child of the family, I've always longed to have an older sibling. As the oldest, I'm always expected to be the.

  2. Growing up, I always wanted a big sister. I saw a lot of friends being able to talk to their older siblings for advice, share their clothes, do their.

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